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In my life journey, I realised:

We struggle, feel frustrated, and become stressed because certain things appear important to us. When we meet our true self, our view of life shifts. The scale of importance adjusts, and naturally, our reactions change.

When our focus is on benefiting ourselves — gain and loss, winning and losing — we react. I have lost money, time, and possessions. As long as there is a separate “me,” fear, worry, and emotional turbulence arise.

But when our intention is to benefit others, whatever happens carries no pressure. It is no longer the “I” doing; it is we creating. From a broader view, we see that events arise exactly as they are meant to in that moment. We accept them — pleasant or unpleasant — and flow with life.

Why do the sutras say everything is an illusion?

At the ultimate realisation, everything we see, feel, and experience — in both the physical world and the soul world — is a temporary manifestation arising from the formless essential nature.

Before recognising this formlessness within — our true being — we mistake these forms as real and permanent. This misunderstanding creates struggle. We believe emotions are real, so when they arise, we feel helpless.

Our ultimate purpose in life is to meet our true self. Like realizing that we are not merely the character inside a video game. The character faces challenges that feel real and frightening, but when we realise who we truly are, we see that we are the one holding the remote control. The character is only a temporary avatar for spiritual growth.

Not everyone is here, in this lifetime, to meet the true self. We honor every soul’s choice — a choice made long before becoming a man or woman on Earth. Some are here to experience life as a mother, father, successful investor, or artist. Others are here to discover the true self.

To live our true self - is to no longer be a helpless character inside a game-screen, but the view of an outsider looking into the screen. Like a lucid dreamer, we become aware that this world is a dream, and we are able to move through it with clarity, freedom, and a degree of direction.

We realise that emotions and thoughts are temporary manifestations from old databases. Life becomes a temporary game; Earth becomes a playground. And now the remote control is in our hands — the seriousness dissolves, possessiveness fades, stress and fear fall away. What remains is lightness, joy, and peace.

When we wake from a nightmare, we feel relieved that it was only a dream. Awakening to our true self is similar — a deep relief that all we experienced was not ultimately real. Lightness and peace arise naturally.